February 2026

This new year has brought me an unexpected experience. On Christmas Eve, I suddenly lost most of my hearing. It wasn’t something I planned for, and hopefully it won’t be permanent, but it has opened my eyes to just how much I took for granted — especially the way sound helps me connect with others.

Singing has become difficult, and leading services or reading a room is far harder when you can’t hear responses or subtle cues. Pastoral conversations take huge concentration, and in noisy places I’m often completely lost. The world has become very quiet, and with that quietness comes a sense of being left out or left behind. It has given me a small glimpse into what many people with hearing loss experience every day.

Isolation, I’ve realised, comes in many forms. It can be caused by disability, illness, life changes, or simply feeling different from those around us. You don’t have to be physically alone to feel lonely. Many people feel isolated even in a crowded room, especially when they fear being misunderstood or overlooked.

The Bible reminds us that we are not meant to be alone, and that God’s heart is especially tender toward those who feel lonely or forgotten. One of the Psalms says that God “sets the lonely in families” — a reminder that connection and community are part of His design for us. This is where the Church shines: a place where people can find belonging, support, and encouragement.

If you’re feeling isolated, please don’t struggle silently. Speak out, reach out, and let others in. Even a short walk, a passing “hello,” or joining a local group can make a real difference. And try to be brave — allow yourself to be seen and known. You may be surprised by the warmth that meets you.
 
God bless
(Rev) Suzie